

The controller ports are attached to the board so that's why they're connected in the 2nd photo.
So I've tried about 3 or 4 times now running wires from the pins on the bottom of the Xbox's board over to the pins on the bottom of the router's board with no luck. No lights on the router indicating that it's connected. No IP address / link. Nothing. The router works fine though. It is getting power and I can connect a regular ethernet cable and everything works as expected. But when trying to run wires between the pins on the bottom I get nothing. After the 4th attempt I'm thinking it's not so much a case of bad connections as it is me not understanding something about ethernet connections. I don't need to wire it crossover style so I haven't been doing that. I'm wiring it to a LAN port and not WAN - even though the dd-wrt router can be set to use the port WAN as LAN.
I initially tried just matching the arrangement of the pins, assuming they would be the same on both the router and Xbox, meaning I ran a wire from the top-left point to the other board's top-left point and then worked my way down. I then tried matching wiring colors thinking that had something to do with it, meaning "pin 1 is orange striped on both sides, pin 2 is orange solid" and so on. I tried that 2 times, thinking one of the 16 connections must have been bad. I then tried cutting an ethernet cable and wiring it to the bottom of the Xbox and connecting the other end into one of the router's ports and still nothing.
Any tips would be very appreciated!